Add support for audit/logger max retry and retry interval (#20402)

Current implementation retries forever until our
log buffer is full, and we start dropping events.

This PR allows you to set a value until we give
up on existing audit/logger batches to proceed to
process the new ones.

Bonus:
 - do not blow up buffers beyond batchSize value
 - do not leak the ticker if the worker returns

internal/logger/help.go

@@ -131,6 +131,18 @@ var (
 			Optional:    true,
 			Type:        "string",
 		},
+		config.HelpKV{
+			Key:         MaxRetry,
+			Description: `maximum retry count before we start dropping upto batch_size events`,
+			Optional:    true,
+			Type:        "number",
+		},
+		config.HelpKV{
+			Key:         RetryInterval,
+			Description: `maximum retry sleeps between each retries`,
+			Optional:    true,
+			Type:        "duration",
+		},
 		config.HelpKV{
 			Key:         config.Comment,
 			Description: config.DefaultComment,