feat: introduce list_quorum="auto" to prefer quorum drives (#18084)

NOTE: This feature is not retro-active; it will not cater to previous transactions
on existing setups. 

To enable this feature, please set ` _MINIO_DRIVE_QUORUM=on` environment
variable as part of systemd service or k8s configmap. 

Once this has been enabled, you need to also set `list_quorum`. 

```
~ mc admin config set alias/ api list_quorum=auto` 
```

A new debugging tool is available to check for any missing counters.

go.mod

@@ -71,6 +71,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/pierrec/lz4 v2.6.1+incompatible
 	github.com/pkg/errors v0.9.1
 	github.com/pkg/sftp v1.13.6
+	github.com/pkg/xattr v0.4.9
 	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.17.0
 	github.com/prometheus/client_model v0.5.0
 	github.com/prometheus/common v0.45.0
@@ -213,7 +214,6 @@ require (
 	github.com/oklog/ulid v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/olekukonko/tablewriter v0.0.5 // indirect
 	github.com/pierrec/lz4/v4 v4.1.19 // indirect
-	github.com/pkg/xattr v0.4.9 // indirect
 	github.com/posener/complete v1.2.3 // indirect
 	github.com/power-devops/perfstat v0.0.0-20221212215047-62379fc7944b // indirect
 	github.com/pquerna/cachecontrol v0.2.0 // indirect