Add slow drive timeouts to match with active disk monitoring (#17701)

allow active disk-monitoring to be configurable, and use
these add deadlines in various call layers for various
syscalls.

cmd/erasure-metadata-utils.go

@@ -170,11 +170,10 @@ func readAllFileInfo(ctx context.Context, disks []StorageAPI, bucket, object, ve
 		errFileNotFound,
 		errVolumeNotFound,
 		errFileVersionNotFound,
-		errDiskNotFound,
-		errUnformattedDisk,
 		io.ErrUnexpectedEOF, // some times we would read without locks, ignore these errors
 		io.EOF,              // some times we would read without locks, ignore these errors
 	}
+	ignoredErrs = append(ignoredErrs, objectOpIgnoredErrs...)
 	errs := g.Wait()
 	for index, err := range errs {
 		if err == nil {