fix: add lock ownership to expire locks (#10571)

- Add owner information for expiry, locking, unlocking a resource
- TopLocks returns now locks in quorum by default, provides
  a way to capture stale locks as well with `?stale=true`
- Simplify the quorum handling for locks to avoid from storage
  class, because there were challenges to make it consistent
  across all situations.
- And other tiny simplifications to reset locks.

cmd/lock-rest-client.go

@@ -87,6 +87,7 @@ func (client *lockRESTClient) Close() error {
 func (client *lockRESTClient) restCall(ctx context.Context, call string, args dsync.LockArgs) (reply bool, err error) {
 	values := url.Values{}
 	values.Set(lockRESTUID, args.UID)
+	values.Set(lockRESTOwner, args.Owner)
 	values.Set(lockRESTSource, args.Source)
 	var buffer bytes.Buffer
 	for _, resource := range args.Resources {