Update metrics configuration to support custom listen address

- Bump telemt dependency version from 3.3.15 to 3.3.19.
- Add `metrics_listen` option to `config.toml` for specifying a custom address for the metrics endpoint.
- Update `ServerConfig` struct to include `metrics_listen` and adjust logic in `spawn_metrics_if_configured` to prioritize this new option over `metrics_port`.
- Enhance error handling for invalid listen addresses in metrics setup.

config.toml

@@ -32,6 +32,7 @@ show = "*"
 port = 443
 # proxy_protocol = false           # Enable if behind HAProxy/nginx with PROXY protocol
 # metrics_port = 9090
+# metrics_listen = "0.0.0.0:9090"  # Listen address for metrics (overrides metrics_port)
 # metrics_whitelist = ["127.0.0.1", "::1", "0.0.0.0/0"]
 
 [server.api]