ME NoWait Routing + Upstream Connbudget + PROXY Header t/o + allocation cuts

src/main.rs

@@ -464,6 +464,7 @@ async fn main() -> std::result::Result<(), Box<dyn std::error::Error>> {
         config.upstreams.clone(),
         config.general.upstream_connect_retry_attempts,
         config.general.upstream_connect_retry_backoff_ms,
+        config.general.upstream_connect_budget_ms,
         config.general.upstream_unhealthy_fail_threshold,
         config.general.upstream_connect_failfast_hard_errors,
         stats.clone(),